I knew what to do! How crazy is that?īack at home, I moved a few sticky notes around on my whiteboard and fixed my plotting issue. When I forgot about my problem, the answer came. I acted like a kid during recess and danced–mentally and physically. Drove to the YMCA.įor 30 minutes, I played solitaire on the treadmill as though I had absolutely nothing better to do. Then I did something really wild and crazy. Like I was the room monitor, slacking off on my duty. I got out my chair, twirled around in my office (no one was home but me), and I boogied my way downstairs– Then dance–the gentle thought brushed against my heart.
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I couldn’t figure out how to fix the plot in my novel.īy 10 a.m., my brain already felt like this.Įver so gently, my word for 2016 came to me.
Thinking too hard and drinking way too much coffee, I sat in my office staring at dozens of sticky notes. My problem just so happened to be about writing, but it could’ve been about anything. Period.Have you ever found the answer to a problem in a bizarre way? That happened to me this weekend. Let’s celebrate her vulnerability and sub-port her and her dynamic by letting go of our …. Feedbackĭid you enjoy Pearls article? Please let her know by private chatting or messaging her in the community. You would think that by now 3 and a half years down the line I would have learned but I know that I am a work in progress. I know if may sound silly but it is just one more layer of control that I am letting go. (Still working on the attitude apparently.) This newsletter I just finished has all those rascally periods left in. What I do in this newsletter is a reflection of Sir. It has slowly dawned on me that it is a control issue for me. This may seem minor but I have deleted hundreds of periods over the years! And feeling superior in the process I might add. For years I have deleted that little period at the end of the titles in the newsletter. One of the things he does that drives me crazy is to put a period at the end for a title. This is mostly cut and paste from his website. About three years ago I suggested that I could take over writing and sending out his newsletter he uses to let his customers know about new items he has for sale. Yep, a stupid period like the one at the end of a sentence.īayoWolf and I both work from home. This most recent revelation of my reluctant submission involves a period. There was the one during grocery shopping where I realized how awful I had been to Sir for years over banana pudding…but that is a story for another time. Over the years I have had some powerful “AHA” moments.
The last 3 and a half years have been some of the best of our 37 year marriage. That was February 2017 and we have never looked back. We both agreed that we would give this D|s-M a try. After reading a bit I took my request to Sir.
One evening, after BayoWolf got particularly upset with me over something inconsequential, I remember pleading with him to just tell me what he wanted! The next day I stumbled in. BayoWolf and I also have 2 granddaughters that are one of the great joys of our lives! We live on our family ranch in Texas.Īfter some major changes in our marriage of almost 34 years we began exploring where else we wanted to take our sex lives. We have 4 kids, twin daughters that are 30 (not sure how that happened!) and 2 at home (14 &16) that we adopted 5 years ago. Hi, I’m Pearl, 57, married to BayoWolf on husDOM for 37 glorious years. Enjoy her words and let them wash over you and help you be inspired to Letting go period.įirst, let me introduce you to subMrs Pearl. I am honored that she shared her “AHA Moment”. A wonderful lady and subMrs wrote a small article about her “AHA Moment”. Once in a while, there is something a subMrs will post that touches my heart and submissive mind.
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